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CONFIDENCE

Is it feeling more superior to others?

Is it being stubborn and single minded?

Is it about being oblivious to other people?

Is it about be self-centered?

Well, it may be useful to start off with a dictionary type definition. The Oxford Reference Dictionary says that confidence is.. “firm trust, a feeling of certainty, sense of self-reliance, boldness”.

Regarding the expression ‘self-confident’ the dictionary says… “having confidence in one’s own ability”.

I think we all have our own idea about what self-confidence is and how it feels to us, which may or may not concur with the above.

Why do some people have more confidence than others?

Actually it is a relatively easy one to answer. It really comes down to how a person perceives the world and in particular how they perceive themselves.